#RealRelationshipGoals (Throwback Interview)

Entry: October 24, 2015 2:32am

Girls 4 Christ Rock Presents…

“October & Relationships”

#RealRelationshipGoals #OctoberSeries15 #G4CR

October 28th-31st

Mr. & Mrs. Green

"It's a wonderful feeling knowing I have him as my partner." - Mrs. Candace Green

"Keeping in mind that you are on the same team!" -Meet #TeamGreen with Mrs. Candace Green:

Candace Green is a native of Chicago, Illinois with a Master of Arts in Public Relations and currently works in Property Management. She was married on September 5, 2015 to her wonderful husband Jereme who holds a Bachelor's Degree in Visual Communications and works in the Film Industry.

"Our family will be ONE that prays, studies, shares, and worships Christ together"- Mrs. Candace Green

Candace’s passions include creative writing, pageantry, fashion, strengthening her marriage & growing her relationship with God. She finds enjoyment in inspiring others to walk in their truth and to truly live their best lives.

What is the most difficult part about marriage?

(CG): The most difficult thing about marriage for me is remembering that I no longer have to do everything on my own. Before Jereme; I was always used to making my own way and not needing or seeking help, now that we are married I'm learning that I don't have to handle heavy responsibilities or life's curve balls on my own, which takes some getting used to but it's a wonderful feeling to have him as my partner. Another difficulty in marriage is being held accountable for everything. Although this is a good thing, it takes some adjustment knowing that Jereme will hold me accountable & "call me out" when I'm not honoring my word. For example, when preparing for our wedding he knew that I set a physical goal for myself as most brides do for the big day. Well, whenever Jereme would see me deviating from my plan he would remind me of what my goal was. This is just a small example but having him to keep me accountable in many areas of my life, stretches me in ways that are allowing me to break bad habits, grow, and improve as a person. Even though it can be uncomfortable having another person constantly be a mirror for me, I always know that he has my best interest at heart.

What do you think is the key to marriage?

(CG): I believe that the key to marriage is keeping in mind that you are on the same team. Early in our relationship Jereme and I referred to ourselves as "Team Green" which started out as a way to show my support for him & our togetherness back when he played football. Throughout our relationship & now marriage; "Team Green" serves as a reminder that no matter what... we are on the same team and will always support each other in our endeavors and in life. Being on the same team means that we will exude behaviors that contribute to and benefit the team, edify one another, always practice patience, protect each other & never talk against the other. Although we are newlyweds I would also say that the key to marriage is taking each day one at a time, knowing that your spouse isn't perfect but that you make a conscious effort to grace each other like God graces us. To add, continuously uplift each other, pray for each other, share your thoughts and concerns freely, and of course spend quality time together.

"Loving your spouse unconditionally and as they are."- Mrs. Candace Green

What advice would you give to the single, dating, and married?

(CG): One of the most important pieces of advice that I can give to those that are single, dating, and married is to always work on yourself and your personal relationship with Christ. Throughout every season of life your personal happiness and being Christ centered will keep you grounded. If you are in tune with yourself and God navigating through the single, dating, and married life will be less difficult. I suggest that singles set clear intentions and boundaries when thinking about dating, and while dating put those intentions and boundaries into action. Communication is key in any human relationship from working relationships, friendships and certainly marriage. I advise married couples to continue building on the foundation that you set while dating and during your engagement. I believe that loving your spouse unconditionally and loving them as they are is key to any marriage. Additionally, it is important to demonstrate respect and learn what way to encourage and ignite the fire in your spouse to continue reaching their full potential and purpose.

Mrs. Candace Green gave us a very touching word about her marriage! We send a special thank you to Mrs. Green and her husband Mr. Green for allowing us to take a look into their lives as a married couple. (Girls4ChristRock_Lynise Barbee)